Unicef survey says ignorance of effects behind child marriage

LALITPUR, SEP 06 - (>The Kathmandu Post)

A Unicef survey on violence against children shows that ignorance of harmful consequences and not the often-cited poverty is behind child marriages in Nepal.

Around 15 percent of the respondents thought that children under the age of 18 get married because they and their family members are not acquainted with the effects early marriage has on the child’s education, health and well-being. 

According to the survey, the other top four reasons are ignorance of child rights, family and social pressure, acceptance of the practice as culture, and acceptance of the practice as norm.

“These findings show that it’s not poverty behind the prevalence of child marriage,” said John Brittain, chief of Communications at Unicef-Nepal.

According to the country’s 2011 census, 11 percent of the total married population tied the knot by the age of 15, while 81 percent of those who were married by 15 are girls. 

According to the Nepal Demographic and Health Survey, 2011, 29 percent of girls in the age group of 15-19 are married, while the figure for boys of the same age group remains at 6.9 percent.

The Unicef survey which will not be published until the end of this year, found that this discrimination among boys and girls can be explained by people’s perception of the marriageable age. While 58.7 percent of the respondents said boys should get married after turning 18, only 37.4 percent thought so about girls. The survey, tentatively titled ‘Knowledge, Attitude and Practices Study on Violence Against Children’, does not explore the role of religion behind child marriage. 

But as religious leaders decide an auspicious date for weddings, Unicef is organising an interaction between adolescents and religious leaders on September 15 in Kathmandu in this regard.

Rape is alarmingly increasing and still remains unreported. People have a little or no belief on authority 

PARSA, MAY 29 -

A girl in Thori VDC has become the latest victim of gang rape in the district. The crime came to light after the victim lodged a complaint with the police on Tuesday. She complained that Mannu Chaudhary, Abinash Sah and Sohan Khawas, all 20 years of age, took her away from her residence and rape d her in the nearby forest a week ago. The victim’s family did not inform the police about the incident fearing social stigma. The accused are at large.

Unspeakable crime against children: sexual violence in conflict

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Rescued children sent back home

NEW DELHI, MAR 23 -

Six Nepali children, who were stranded in various nongovernmental organisations in the Indian Capital, have been rescued. They were sent back home on Friday.

Children aged between 10 and 14 years were repatriated with the joint efforts of Maiti India—a branch of Maiti Nepal—and the Nepali migrants’ organisation Nepal Janasamparka Samiti. The children, who had left home for various reasons and reached Delhi, were handed over by the local police to the NGOs.

Most of the children showed poverty and domestic violence as the reason for fleeing their homes. Some were found to have been sent by their parents to earn for the family. In most cases, children who flee their homes and reach different parts of India have not only been the victims of extreme form of child labour but also the physical and mental violence, Samiti President Balkrishna Pandey said.

Among the rescued are Sandeep Pandey (Palpa), Raju Sharma (Kathmandu), Amrit Kafle (Chitwan), Bikash Thapa (Sindhuli), Munna Ansari (Bara) and Dipak Adhikari (Dhanusha).

 From the Kathmandu post

The war on women 
The prolonged political disarray and ensuing impunity are fostering gender-based crime. 

Nepali rulers were probably glad that the public's attention shifted over the new year away from deadlocked politics to escalating protests in the streets of the capital against the latest atrocities against women.
But that should be short-term relief, for the reason why gender-based violence, and stigmatisation are so persistent in Nepal is because politicians have forgotten what it is all about. As representatives of the people, it is their job to ensure the safety, security, and rights of vulenrable citizens. It is the prolonged political disarray and the ensuing impunity that has led to a breakdown in law and order and an increase in gender-based crime.
It is not enough anymore to use the excuse of entrenched patriarchy or culturally-accepted gender inequity to explain away the epidemic of violence against women in our society. We had a system in place since the restoration of democracy in 1990 to set things right, and after the 2008 elections we had the most representative legislature ever in Nepal's history. Laws were passed, but enforcement has been feeble. A male-dominated society has been slow to change behaviour, and the priority for media has been male-dominated politics.
A young woman was robbed and raped on return from Saudi Arabia, a domestic helper was murdered in Kathmandu, two young women were burnt alive by family members in Banke and Bara. These latest atrocities pushed public outrage beyond the tipping point.
But inquiries at Maiti Nepal show that there are 3-5 women every week who are robbed, exploited, blackmailed, and abused by airport personnel. Sita was just the latest, and her story only came out because relatives dared to complain to the authorities.
Ironically, the protests in Baluwatar and Singha Darbar this week have provided the government an opportunity to earn brownie points and project itself as a champion of gender equality without having to change the status quo or answer difficult questions. If the Bhattarai government can fast track these cases and put criminals behind bars, the Nepali media with its notoriously short attention span will move back to covering politics and the only women who make it to the news will be semi-nude models.
Thousands of women were tortured, raped, killed, and disappeared during the conflict. It's been almost seven years since the war ended, but the formation of a Truth and Reconciliation Commission is still in limbo because of the collusion of the warring sides which are now both part of the establishment. War crimes have gone unpunished. Perpetrators of atrocities mingle openly with politicians. It is this culture of impunity that allows policemen like Parsuram Basnet and others to think that they can get away with rape and murder.
Demonstrators this week held placards calling for stricter laws and fast track courts to deal with rape and domestic violence. But we all know laws won't suffice, Nepalis must examine the patriarchal values that perpetuate such atrocities.
What does it say about our culture which excuses men when they grope, leer, cat-call, assault women on public transport, at movie theatres, in the vegetable market. Worse, they put the blame on the woman: she asked for it, her clothes were too revealing, she should not have been at a party so late at night. And what message is the state sending when the police ridicules and harasses victims, refuses to file their case, and holds them guilty instead?
While the demonstrations in front of Baluwatar might provide a quick-fix to the women and their families, the only long-term solution is to raise young Nepali men and women differently. Teach them that women's bodies are not free-for-all objects of desire, they have a voice and their consent is important.
And instead of commodifying the female body, the media, movies and tv should be at the forefront of trying to change social attitudes.

	Stateless children's"unknown" fathers
	CHADANI HAMAL CHITWAN, Jan 1: Kul Bahadur Bohara of Ayodhyapuri in Madi, Chitwan has turned 20 and also has a year old son. But he is still has not been able to acquire citizenship as his parents did not registertheir marriage.  Kul Bahadur´s mother Jaumaya Bohara had married police personnel Lok Bahadur Bohara while he was posted at the Chitwan National Park some two decades ago. But Lok Bahadur neither registered hismarriage with Jaumaya nor took wardship of his son.  “I was abandoned after my mother eloped with another person when I was a child. I pity myself as I belong nowhere,” said Kul Bahadur. Lack of citizenship has also made it difficult for Kul Bahadur to find a job. “I am not even in a position to apply for foreign employment,” he added.  Similarly, Motika Gurung, 18, of the same village shares a similar story. Bhoj Bahadur Gurung of Lamjung, a policeman deployed at the Chitwan National Park, married Motika´s mother and fathered two daughters. Bhoj Bahadur never came back to take the stock of his family after he got transferred from the park.  “He had contracted us once from abroad after retirement. But he never returned home. If he had helped us get citizenship, it would have been a lot easier for us to earn a living,” said Motika.  “I have citizenship certificates of my husband. But the VDC refused to register our marriage,” said Deumaya Sarki of Gunjanagar. Deumaya´s husband Deep Bahadur Khatri, a job holder at the National Park, left her 14 years ago. Accompanied by her father in-law, Deumaya sought citizenship for her son but was returned empty-handed as the district administration demanded the boy´s father to appear in person.  According to a survey conducted by CoAction Nepal, 111 women and 166 children living in the villages near the Chitwan National Park are stateless as their fathers remain unknown. A total of 17 women and children have acquired citizenship after winning a legal battle, while another 23 women acquired citizenship after getting married.  According to Executive Director of CoAction Nepal, 94 percent of the people facing difficulties in acquiring citizenship lack information and proper documents. According to Sanjeeb Raj Regmi, judge at the Chitwan District Court, the legal provisions regarding citizenship through mother´s lineage is still unclear. (Courtesy: The Republica)